Barbara Reams Haws Jilton passed away on Saturday, Feb. 25, 2017. She was born in Talbot, Tennessee on July 27, 1933 to the late Robert L. Reams and Anna Mae Murr Reams. She was predeceased by her husband, Ned D. Jilton, Sr., her brother Bobby Reams, and by Grace and Lyle Haws who were like parents to her.
Jonesborough and Johnson City were always home to her, where she lived a rich, full, and abundant life. A graduate of Jonesboro High School and East Tennessee State University; she taught English and Language Arts for over thirty years at Jonesborough Middle School; she loved young people and was honored as Teacher of the Year for Washington County. She was also a member of the Delta Kappa Gamma Society.
A member of the Jonesborough Presbyterian Church for over 60 years, Barbara loved her church family. She served as an elder, was a member of the Shalom Circle, the Granny Broyles Sunday School Class, and volunteered tirelessly at the church whenever there was a need or a celebration. Singing alto in the church choir was another joy she had, and she could still harmonize in these last few weeks when words wouldn’t come to her. A beacon of health and vitality for most of her life, she loved her family, friends, the jitterbug, college football, the Atlanta Braves, and any kind of music. She lived her life to the fullest. Her faith in God and love for all people without reservation was an example to all who knew her. Barbara’s children and grandchildren will miss her teasing, joking, and loving devotion to them. She is survived by her daughter Laura Haws Williams and Bob (son-in-law) of Charleston, SC; her son Frank P. Haws, Jr. and Judy (daughter-in-law) of Johnson City; her daughter Angela Haws Poole of Lexington, KY; and one step-son Ned D. Jilton, Jr. of Gray. She was an amazing grandmother to seven grandchildren, Judith Smith (Charleston, SC); Sam Correll (Prosper, TX); Caroline Gebhardt (Atlanta, GA); Larry Poole (Katy, TX); John Lyle Poole (Lexington, KY); Hank Haws (Tampa, FL); Kaley Haws (Johnson City); and nine great-grandchildren. Additional survivors include her sister Julia Clark (Johnson City), sister-in-law Judy Haws Hash (Colonial Heights), niece Renee Clark Sherer, and nephew Dr. Rob Hash. She also leaves special friends Ashley Haws Guyton, Meredith Haws Balasco, Angelique and Mitch Skaggs, Lynn Haren, Charlene and Bill Allen, Helen Conger, Corinne Parnell, Elvin and Hank Little, Betty Mitchell, and Caroline Hill.
Funeral services celebrating the life of Barbara Reams Haws Jilton will be held at Dillow Taylor Funeral Home on Tuesday, Feb. 28th; family will receive friends from 5pm to 7pm, and funeral service will follow. She will be laid to rest at Maple Lawn Cemetery in Jonesborough on Wed., March 1st at 11am.
Active pallbearers will be her grandsons. Honorary pallbearers will be Dalmer Cavin, Joel Conger, Sam Haren, Bob Hash, Dr. Frank Haws, Elvin Little, Henry Marable, Sam Mitchell, Dr. Clay Renfro, Jimmy Rhein, Joe Wilson, Kelly Wolfe, and Pat Wolfe.
The family would like to extend special thanks for the loving caregivers in the skilled nursing wing at Cornerstone Village and to the caregivers from Avalon Hospice.
In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Jonesborough Presbyterian Church, the Ronald McDonald House or to the charity of your choice.
03/01/2017
Debbie Williams
Her passing has stirred up some wonderful memories. I can still remember her standing by her middle school classroom door "ROUNDING UP" the students for class. She was always positive and encouraging with her words of wisdom. WHAT A WONDERFUL TEACHER. How wonderful it would be to relive those "days" for just a moment, I can through many wonderful memories. I can remember when I was a little girl how nice she was to my momma, my sister Susie and me. Great "LIPSTICK" too, yes I noticed that as a little girl. I can say that she (among others) had a great influence on my life and helped mold me to be the person I am today. I will miss her but I will think of her often. To her family...YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND I AM SURE SHE WAS VERY PROUD OF YOU. I am sorry for your loss. GOD BLESS YOU.
03/01/2017
Abigail Whitson
I had the privilege of helping care for her. She
was so sweet and funny. She always knew how to put
a smile on your face she will be missed and she
was very much loved at Cornerstone. I love and
miss you barb!
02/28/2017
Nancy Stevens Brown
Ms Haws was my teacher when I went to Asbury School. She was the
one teacher who molded my life. I have thought of her often over the
years. I credit her with helping me be what I am today. Thank you for
all you did for me and I love you and will miss you so very much.
Barbara was a sweet lady and loved by many. She will
be missed!!
02/28/2017
Samona Jilton McMillan and family
Barbara was wonderful and I was so fortunate to have her in my life growing up. We extend our sympathies and prayers to your family.
02/27/2017
Georgie Byrd Snapp
Barbara was such a wonderful person. I knew her for years
and she was always so much fun and always interested in
other people. She will be missed!
02/27/2017
Georgie Byrd Snapp
Barbara was such a wonderful person. I knew her for years
and she was always so much fun and always interested in
other people. She will be missed!
02/27/2017
J.Shannon Zukas
My thoughts and prayers for my cousins and
the family of Barbara..what an exceptional
lady she was...Wonderful memories with
morals and life lessons is what she leaves
in my heart...I think of Laura,Judith,Sam
and Caroline often,I'm holding you in my
prayers and heart as you go through this
time....
02/27/2017
Cherie Chapman Phillips
Baba,
Your love of family, friends, students and God
remains within each of us. Your laughter and
smiles permeate our beings forever. My heart is
heavy with the loss of being unable to visit
with you again here. However, know you are
welcomed by our Savior and rejoined with all of
your friends and family. As always your joy will
be with all who love you so!
Love and prayers to all of your family! You each
filled Barbara's life to overflowing with your
love and care!
Lovingly,
Cherie
02/27/2017
Mr.Tommy and Karen Perkey
Barbara was a very special lady and she will be missed, her family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
All I can say is Barbara Jilton was the coolest teacher I ever had.
02/27/2017
Tim and Susan Coones
Lifting you all up in prayer! I know Baba will be missed. Such
sweet memories we have of her when she visited South
Carolina. We were blessed to know her! Sending hugs and
prayers your way! ❤
Dear Family Members,
Barbara was truly a one-of-a-kind lady! I vividly remember
meeting her in the JMS hallway back in 1971. She was
beautiful, laughing, smiling, friendly...I could go on and on!
From that day forward, Barbara became one of my very
dearest friends. She epitomized every quality a true friend
should possess. Just thinking of all the lives she touched is
overwhelming. I know I am a better person today because of
her Christian influence. Please know I truly loved, admired,
and respected Barbara. There will never be another "Barbara."
She is absent from the body, but she is in the presence of our
Lord!!! May God bless each of you and surround you with the
peace only He can give. She loved you all so much! My
deepest love and sympathy go to you, Laura, Frank, Angie,
and other family members. Lynn Haren
Sweet Barbara! I can just imagine you in Heaven right now
with all of our family there! You were and will always remain in
my heart and your laughter and great jitterbug bring a smile to
my face! I will see you in Heaven and will miss you here! I love
you! Kim
02/26/2017
Becky and Russ Robinson
Laura, we are praying for you and your family during his time.
Your mom was so sweet and will be dearly missed. She was
loved by all. Our thoughts are with you all. Love Russ and
Becky